This is all I could muster up as a tribute to good old MJ. Extremely talented but just weird. Besides, this video fits better with this topic better than any of his.
I found this little essay below on thefitshack.com, written by JoLynn Brayley. Give it a read…you just might find your favorite excuse. If you’re serious about success you might want to stop using it.
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One issue that is rampant among those who use food in an attempt to feel better, to procrastinate, out of boredom, or for any other reason than physical hunger is the issue of Excuses.
Excuses will keep you fat and excuses will keep you stuck. Excuses will also help you to continue to create more of what you already have - negative emotions and an unhealthy, fat, feel-bad body.
Excuses Excuses Excuses
There are so many excuses you can always come up with that will keep you fat, stuck, and unhappy and I’ve selected the top 5 today. Oh, and how do I know that excuses are so prevelant among food abusers? Because I’ve been there and I know this to be true!
Not only do I know this to be true because I’ve been there myself, but also because of all of the people I have spoken with, met, interacted with, guided, inspired, or assisted to move beyond their excuses. The thing is though that the only way you will move beyond your own excuses is if you are willing to do so. If you are more invested in staying stuck in your excuses than you are in releasing them and allowing yourself to get fit, get healthy, and get happy, then you will continue to use your excuses that will keep you fat.
5 Excuses That Will Keep You Fat
- I’ll Do It Tomorrow - This is the #1 Excuse that will keep you fat and not only will it keep you fat, it will keep you spinning your wheels in Stuckville. The plain and simple truth is…Tomorrow Never Comes. Today is the Tomorrow that you told yourself would be the Tomorrow when you would change. Today is Always Tomorrow and as long as you continue to use the excuse that you’ll do it tomorrow, you are forever putting off your life and forever living in Stuckville.Â
- I Don’t Have Time - Everyone on this beautiful planet Earth has the same amount of hours in their day. What does the excuse you use of telling yourself you don’t have time do for you? When will you ever have the time to get fit and lose the fat? When will you ever have the time to lose the excuse? Using the excuse that you don’t have time is an excuse and it is also a value. You Always have enough time for that which you value in your life.
- It’s Too Hard - If you believe “it’s too hard”, you’re totally right. You are always right when you tell yourself whatever you tell yourself because that’s what you believe! If you continue to choose to use the excuse that it’s too hard then “it” will be too hard. This is the most interesting of the top 5 excuses that will keep you fat because the easiest thing to do is to lose weight. Simply stick with whole foods, eat more often, use portion control, and move your body. 30 minutes a day of walking in your target heart rate zone works wonders to drop the fat. Simple as that, along with drinking 100 oz of water a day. However what makes losing the fat hard is that you use the excuse that it’s hard and then never take the action that will get you what you want. Therefore, the excuses continue to pay your rent in Stuckville.
- She/He Can Do It But I Can’t - This is yet another excuse that will keep you fat, and stuck. While there are different body types, the main thing that will prove you right in this excuse is again your thoughts. If you choose to use this excuse you will keep yourself stuck as it is and won’t take the actions that would prove you “wrong”, so really all of these excuses will always prove you right. Why? Because the excuses are your way of keeping yourself where you are in the space of inaction. Since you aren’t taking the healthy actions that would melt the fat from your body, then you have proven that your excuses are “true”. It’s really a lose-lose proposition for yourself, however the best thing you can do is become aware of the fact that you are using excuses so that you can choose to opt out at any time. You can always choose to drop your excuses if you want to because they are your thoughts and you are the thinker in your world.
- I Can’t Afford It - What is it that you cannot afford? You cannot not afford to invest in yourself to create peace of mind around food and your body, if your quality of life, your serenity, your self-love and relationship with yourself is of value to you. If you do not value these qualities of life then you will use the excuse that you “can’t afford it”, which is the most dangerous excuse of all. When you resist investing in your own health in body, mind, and spirit whether that is investing in healthy food, creating a peaceful environment, a coach to guide and assist you out of your own blind spots, or a quality pair of walking shoes, what you resist is allowing in the healthy life that a part of you tells yourself you desire. This all comes down to what you value though, and if you place a higher value on sticking with the excuses then you will continue to stay where you are.
Thoughts are things and what you think is what you get. Excuses are thoughts you think, thoughts that you believe are “reasons” for not getting what you want, however you are the one in control of your choices and you choose what you think and create in your life. As long as you choose the excuses though, you will stay in the land of inaction and Stuckville.
Excuses Keep You In Stuckville
Choosing excuses will keep you in Stuckville, and having been there myself in the past I can tell you that it’s No Fun and I always say that “If It’s Not Fun, Why Do It?”. It’s not fun to live in Stuckville and it’s also not fun to choose excuses - not only because they will keep you fat but also because they are limiting. And do you really want to live a limited life? Is THAT fun?
My wish for you is that you consciously choose to eliminate all excuses and that you choose to think only those thoughts that will move you forward into the healthy lifestyle you could be living Right Now if you were to choose to do so.
Workout of the Day:
- 10 Thrusters 135lbs/95lbs
- 10 Burpees
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June 29th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
Kim, thanks for the extra motivation!! When I read articles like this one it motivates me to continue with my crossfit workouts and to eat healthier!! It makes a differecne in all aspects of your life when you put your health before the TV and fast foods.
June 29th, 2009 at 2:02 pm
Great topic.
I have heard these time in and time out and it frustrating to have people fall deeper and deeper in this downward spiral.
Its the little things that count. Like cutting out that fast food lunch by packing your own. or even pumping off some push ups and squats at your home when you know you’ll have not time to get to the gym. Its the small things that count.
Like Kim has said before, sooner or later your health will matter, why not make it on your own terms.
June 29th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
this was a great motivator, I am REALLY stuggling right now for motivation and this helped me…Thanks
Oh and a comment about benchmark day on fri, I thought I was pregnant cause “the girls” hurt so bad…then i realized that it was from doing 180 push-ups hahah…no excuses now, no baby
June 29th, 2009 at 10:30 pm
As usual, I agree with Jonny. I hear these all the time too and it can be so very hard to climb out of that hole once you start to dig down…but it is up to each and every one of us to dig in and start climbing. Also…extend that helping hand to anyone you see slip. Support is huge to anyone who is trying to catch the the Health n Fitness virus (H1F1…if you will)
June 30th, 2009 at 12:31 am
I’ll do it tomorrow is definitely one of my favorites. It’s so easy to say oh, well I’ll start doing that tomorrow, or next Monday (so you start the week with a clean slate!) or next month, or year, or whatever. As a pretty kick ass procrastinator, this is probably my life goat (as opposed to my CrossFit goats!)
As for that thruster/burpee workout - whew. I was hurting trying to finish up that one. The row afterwards was no picnic either. Nice workout!
June 30th, 2009 at 7:26 am
I really liked her comment about being in Stuckville not being fun. The people I know that continually make excuses for not being in shape are generally some of the least happy people that I know. How often do you see people who get regular exercise not in good moods. Not often. Healthy is Happy.
Really good article.
July 1st, 2009 at 1:52 pm
Great essay… I really like the part about deciding what you “value”. Eating right and regular exercise are an investment and will only happen if you place value in it.
July 5th, 2009 at 7:52 pm
Too bad society supports so many of the “excuses”. Fast food and other garbage foods are always cheaper than the healthy stuff. Heard that some places in the States are putting an extra tax on junk food. Do they really think this will slow sales? Better plan would be to rebate folks who buy the good stuff. Always great for me to read these kind of articles for motivation. Thanks.
February 15th, 2011 at 3:38 pm
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You’ve got your point via a great deal far better than I at any time could, thank you!…